I’m not heartless.
A person who knows my mother, the one who infiltrated my personal Facebook page, and reached out to me a few days ago, insisting that my mother is different… Well, she let something slip. She mentioned that my mother has stopped going to see my father, who she put into an assisted living home, several years ago. She said that Marie hasn’t been back in a year.
Who abandons their daughter and grandchildren for the man that abused the both of them?
My mother did that, 13 years ago, because she literally abandoned me and her grandchildren, strangely choosing the man that belittled, ignored, hurt, abused, and treated us with such distain that neither of us felt like a human being, so she must love him through thick and thin, sickness and and health, right? No, he’s worse than ever, due to his horrific attitude and the friend said that my mother no longer goes and sees him for the last year. Who does that? The man is infirm and losing his mind and I’m sure he has certain ailments that I am unaware of, and she’s abandoned him in a home with no one.
She’s utterly heartless and yet everyone is trying to tell me that she’s a caring and kind person. I truly don’t know which is worse, because she literally makes me feel bad for this man, my father, that hurt me. To imagine him alone in a home with no one seeing him…Yes, it’s karmic justice for him, but she chose him, so she should suck it up and go and be with him no matter what he says, and does to her.
Stand by your poor choice Marie, stand for something. You made your choice and this perfectly showcases who you are. You don’t champion anyone but yourself. 

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