

Inevitable consequence
You are not a bad person for not being there. You are a person who was not given a loving foundation as a child. Your mother never expected you to hold her accountable. Your father enjoyed his lifetime of atrocities. The pain of it does not get smaller the more you think about it. It actually gets more painful as you parent. The same woman who was absent in every way that mattered, was so consumed by her own world that her child grew up in the same house as her while feeling
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Available Today! Multi author book~
“Available in paperback and Ebook, today on Amazon. I was invited to be a part of this lovely venture. You can find my original story within the pages of this heartfelt book.  Becoming an author has not been easy, because I can no longer turn off my emotions. My resolute decision to start writing has forever changed my path and some life decisions don’t look big when they happen. They’re quiet. Private. Almost invisible to everyone else. What if the moment that changed your
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Grief enduring
Here it comes! I willbe a featured author, April 24th. My story will be included in the release-Womem Like Me Community; The Quiet Decisions That Changed Everything. I’ll share the link to purchase, as soon as it becomes available. This is the second book that I have been invited to write an original biographical story for and it’s once again because the topic is one that’s close to my heart. It’s a special book full of inspirational stories. When one ponders quiet decisions
Apr 211 min read


Pulling Weeds
“See that woman pulling weeds from her mind? She is busy creating a safe space for herself and a loving haven where her child can thrive without the burdens she's carried. She’s settling her heart into beating a new rhythm. The mindset she’s built is a selfless, unconditional love. She is going to be the one who is determined to break the cycle and give her child a brighter future. She's not just a mother. She’s leaping cycles and distancing herself from dysfunction in her dn
Apr 41 min read


Gaslit golden heart
A woman who navigated being gaslit by her parents has created a uniquely broken individual. All of her personal nooks and crannies are full of past trauma. -she's pretty, but did you notice how she doesn't like to make eye contact when given a compliment? -did you notice she's one of those people that enjoys little joys? -she tends to talk a lot when she's happy. -have you noticed how hard she is on herself about succeeding and praising herself? Yeah, sure, she's pretty, but
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Featured on RSDSA
https://rsds.org/when-no-one-believed-him/?fbclid=IwZnRzaAQUhJRleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEeGdUEkhXtVAumFBeo4pDQDGjKHiZurjkQTpep6i4U1cIVYGnRIz25hvACbGc_aem_H3cwLdUBzSOEmYJOjkE06w My son developed CRPS as an 11 year old when another child knocked him down at school. The unbearable pain was nearly instant. He thought that he’d somehow broken a bone in his foot. By the time dinner rolled around, he had removed his sock and shoe. As he began homework after din
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